<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss' xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284</id><updated>2011-09-09T01:57:41.364-05:00</updated><category term='Reading'/><category term='Life and Love'/><category term='Attachment parenting goes mainstream?'/><category term='Sentimental'/><category term='math'/><category term='Parent problems'/><category term='I LOVE unschooling'/><category term='Getting It'/><category term='O/T'/><category term='Philosophy 101'/><title type='text'>AND The Kitchen Sink!</title><subtitle type='html'>Welcome to the meanderings of our unschooling journey, my tangents &amp; musings and life in general.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default?max-results=100'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>46</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>100</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-5324773830885713793</id><published>2011-08-15T02:09:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2011-08-25T07:55:23.474-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sentimental'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I LOVE unschooling'/><title type='text'>Who knew?</title><summary type='text'>I wanted to be a mommy from early on. There were many loves and desires wrapped up in that goal, but I always knew I'd be one. I spend more time planning my parenting skills and daydreaming about how I'd handle certain situations and what I'd name my kids and how many were enough than I spent planning careers - and there were *many* different hats I tried on in the career department!It is so </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/5324773830885713793/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=5324773830885713793' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/5324773830885713793'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/5324773830885713793'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2011/08/who-knew.html' title='Who knew?'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-3047292897917024501</id><published>2011-07-29T01:45:00.008-05:00</published><updated>2011-07-29T03:07:25.329-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Getting It'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Philosophy 101'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sentimental'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I LOVE unschooling'/><title type='text'>Milestones</title><summary type='text'>I started discussing this on Facebook, then realized my kids both have accounts and could possibly run across what I was writing... ! If they know about my blog, they don't know how to get to it. I think.Storm's tooth has been loose for a few weeks, now. We've been keeping an eye on it. Not very loose, but last week, it got a bit wigglier. Tuesday night, after his teeth were brushed, we noticed a</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/3047292897917024501/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=3047292897917024501' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/3047292897917024501'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/3047292897917024501'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2011/07/milestones.html' title='Milestones'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/-FjLBfZ0CeXI/TjJnud2PUsI/AAAAAAAAAPc/NRTBcC_U738/s72-c/DSCF3983.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-1256658779337593532</id><published>2011-07-19T00:11:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2011-07-19T00:49:04.275-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Getting It'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='math'/><title type='text'>Listening</title><summary type='text'>Funny how ideas about parenting change after becoming a parent. I thought I would be teaching my children to listen to me... funny. Turns out, one of the most important things I could learn as a parent was how to listen. Sometimes, I still have occasions where I struggle to shut my mouth and listen, but I am always better off when I do.I am naturally an impulsive person. I struggled long and hard</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/1256658779337593532/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=1256658779337593532' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/1256658779337593532'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/1256658779337593532'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2011/07/listening.html' title='Listening'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-7351145635666096444</id><published>2010-07-27T17:14:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2010-07-27T18:16:03.932-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I'm THAT mom...</title><summary type='text'>I am *loving* this impromptu blog carnival! Fun stuff - thanks, Ronnie!I am that mom that gets the looks at the playgrounds &amp; playplaces from other moms.I am that mom who always seems to be smiling in the midst of mayhem and ruckus while other moms with leery looks guide their children wide around our "circle of influence".I am that mom that sits in the restaurant making funny faces with her kids</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/7351145635666096444/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=7351145635666096444' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/7351145635666096444'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/7351145635666096444'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2010/07/im-that-mom.html' title='I&apos;m THAT mom...'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TE9irFhE1AI/AAAAAAAAAME/BZY0La4JQ3U/s72-c/DSCF2840.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-5191859161832582712</id><published>2010-07-17T00:43:00.009-05:00</published><updated>2010-07-17T03:05:03.141-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Reading'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Getting It'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I LOVE unschooling'/><title type='text'>A Reading Storm</title><summary type='text'>"The master in the art of living makes little distinction between his work and his play, his labor and his leisure, his mind and his body, his information and his recreation, his love and his religion. He hardly knows which is which. He simply pursues his vision of excellence at whatever he does, leaving others to decide whether he is working or playing. To him he's always doing both." — James A.</summary><link rel='enclosure' type='video/mp4' href='http://www.blogger.com/video-play.mp4?contentId=2060b952f62d5cbf&amp;type=video%2Fmp4' length='0'/><link rel='enclosure' type='video/mp4' href='http://www.blogger.com/video-play.mp4?contentId=ece4585539983ac7&amp;type=video%2Fmp4' length='0'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/5191859161832582712/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=5191859161832582712' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/5191859161832582712'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/5191859161832582712'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2010/07/reading-storm.html' title='A Reading Storm'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFVVumcH7I/AAAAAAAAALY/1Hur_p4HXhU/s72-c/DSCF2530.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-5578001711849875679</id><published>2010-04-14T18:56:00.016-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-15T03:02:58.181-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Philosophy 101'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Sentimental'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Life and Love'/><title type='text'>Ghosts of the Future</title><summary type='text'>Time is free, but it's priceless. You can't own it, but you can use it. You can't keep it, but you can spend it. Once you've lost it you can never get it back. - unknown Birthdays aren't a big deal to me, then again, they are. My own ceased to be much of an exciting thing after I hit 21... Ageism bugs me and I don't hang out with folks (or don't) because of their age, getting older isn't </summary><link rel='enclosure' type='video/mp4' href='http://www.blogger.com/video-play.mp4?contentId=1ce1d06f6b911ebe&amp;type=video%2Fmp4' length='0'/><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/5578001711849875679/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=5578001711849875679' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/5578001711849875679'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/5578001711849875679'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2010/04/ghosts-of-future.html' title='Ghosts of the Future'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/S8aEPIzHrcI/AAAAAAAAAKw/XJK8hQpEz8Q/s72-c/DSCF0026.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-7042066162714334463</id><published>2010-02-01T14:48:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2010-02-01T14:49:19.470-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Sorry, Folks!</title><summary type='text'>While I figure out if I'm moving my blog or continuing here, I'm setting my comments to "approve" setting, since I am getting a hella lot of spammers here. Sorry about that! Hopefully, they'll go away and I can go back to business as usual soon.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/7042066162714334463/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=7042066162714334463' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/7042066162714334463'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/7042066162714334463'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2010/02/sorry-folks.html' title='Sorry, Folks!'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-8149036537073000846</id><published>2009-06-26T00:03:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2009-06-26T01:04:39.994-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Let the Healing Start?</title><summary type='text'>To be nobody but myself -- in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else -- means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight, and never stop fighting. -E.E. Cummings, Poet (1894-1962)It's good that tears can't be seen in the dark. It's also good that tired children aren't as perceptive in the dark when they're sleepy and thinking of other things...</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/8149036537073000846/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=8149036537073000846' title='12 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/8149036537073000846'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/8149036537073000846'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2009/06/let-healing-start.html' title='Let the Healing Start?'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>12</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-7286968887365618373</id><published>2009-06-07T00:23:00.017-05:00</published><updated>2010-09-21T01:35:21.991-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Getting It'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I LOVE unschooling'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='math'/><title type='text'>Unschooling Math!</title><summary type='text'>To be nobody but myself -- in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else -- means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight, and never stop fighting. -E.E. Cummings, poet (1904-1962)...Have I mentioned I love Unschooling? Some days just are such an example, I kind of wish I had someone I needed to convince, since I now have "proof"..The boys and I</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/7286968887365618373/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=7286968887365618373' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/7286968887365618373'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/7286968887365618373'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2009/06/unschooling-math.html' title='Unschooling Math!'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/Siw0rrI7yvI/AAAAAAAAAJk/GVLPeBLaDxY/s72-c/DSCF1819.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-69144351807892657</id><published>2009-05-10T12:01:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2009-05-10T12:15:42.936-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Little things...</title><summary type='text'>Storm has been asking to do things this week-where has he gotten the idea? I'm not sure. He asked to get me flowers for Mother's Day when we were at Mustard Seed. He asked to buy me a card when we were at Target-but not with me. Which makes it tough when Dave's out of town.I got a fistful of dandelions a few days ago. :~) Bright, sunny, yellow, fuzzy circles of happiness, plus a couple other "</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/69144351807892657/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=69144351807892657' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/69144351807892657'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/69144351807892657'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2009/05/little-things.html' title='Little things...'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-2596563675602064640</id><published>2009-05-08T23:43:00.004-05:00</published><updated>2009-05-09T12:17:35.001-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='O/T'/><title type='text'>Soapbox mini-rant</title><summary type='text'>As if the title weren't enough... I have been feeling the need to blow off some steam, don't have much venue where I can do that with this and this is *my* space, so I'm going to get up on my li'l ol' soapbox and have my say.The events of this week have really clarified *why* Unschoolers feel (justly or unjustly) treated with intolerance in eclectic/diverse homeschooling groups. Well, not the </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/2596563675602064640/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=2596563675602064640' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/2596563675602064640'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/2596563675602064640'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2009/05/soapbox-mini-rant.html' title='Soapbox mini-rant'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-7975262835452696004</id><published>2009-04-13T17:46:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-15T02:10:12.610-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Perspective</title><summary type='text'> "Live as if you were to die tomorrow. Learn as if you were to live forever" ~Gandhi Incredible the way it affects your being when "one of your own" dies. Especially when it is sudden. Even moreso when they were 12 years younger than yourself.Today, I heard through the grapevine (amazing how small the world is, really...) that Neal died. Incredible shock was my first reaction. Disbelief was my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/7975262835452696004/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=7975262835452696004' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/7975262835452696004'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/7975262835452696004'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2009/04/perspective.html' title='Perspective'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-1410037147475854468</id><published>2009-02-28T18:55:00.008-05:00</published><updated>2010-04-15T02:40:26.243-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Getting It'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Philosophy 101'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Parent problems'/><title type='text'>Conflict</title><summary type='text'>The race of men, while sheep in credulity, are wolves for conformity. -Carl Van Doren, professor, writer, and critic (1885-1950)I don't know why conflict between my boys seems so tough for me to deal with. Maybe I don't have enough practice. Maybe I don't have enough confidence. Maybe it's something else. I don't know.Too many times, Storm or Wyl comes to me saying the other did something or hurt</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/1410037147475854468/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=1410037147475854468' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/1410037147475854468'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/1410037147475854468'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2009/02/race-of-men-while-sheep-in-credulity.html' title='Conflict'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-4587914513482664528</id><published>2009-02-23T00:06:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-28T19:23:30.308-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I LOVE unschooling'/><title type='text'>Growing...</title><summary type='text'> One does not advance the swimming abilities of ducks by throwing the eggs in the water. -Multatuli (pen name of Eduard Douwes Dekker), novelist (1820-1887)It never fails to amaze me how much my children have grown. Here I am, beside them each day, all day long most days and yet, when I take a moment and look back... Wow.Wyl stood up for a friend a few days ago. Neighbor boys from a couple houses</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/4587914513482664528/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=4587914513482664528' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/4587914513482664528'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/4587914513482664528'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2009/02/growing.html' title='Growing...'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-2710525812734128726</id><published>2009-02-07T01:02:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-28T19:25:21.087-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Vibes</title><summary type='text'>The soul is healed by being with children. -Fyodor Dostoyevsky, novelist (1821-1881) I'm freshly home from Unschooler's Winter Waterpark Gathering and still basking in that unschooling vibe. I love hanging out with unschoolers... easy-going, peaceful, kid-loving, accepting, joyful, fun people. Coming home from it helps me appreciate the great little group of unschoolers we have in my area. THANK </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/2710525812734128726/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=2710525812734128726' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/2710525812734128726'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/2710525812734128726'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2009/02/vibes.html' title='Vibes'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-2575194349880673441</id><published>2009-01-09T17:17:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2009-02-28T19:26:59.844-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Getting It'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Philosophy 101'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I LOVE unschooling'/><title type='text'>Contentment</title><summary type='text'>"You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget. When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth." ~Megan Jo Eberhart, 5 years old.My life is *so* rich... I've been sitting here, today, just so satisfied and content with life As It Is. I have good friends, a </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/2575194349880673441/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=2575194349880673441' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/2575194349880673441'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/2575194349880673441'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2009/01/contentment.html' title='Contentment'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-5170296427636321917</id><published>2008-09-17T23:48:00.013-05:00</published><updated>2008-10-09T12:08:56.100-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Live and Learn 2008 .... part 2</title><summary type='text'>I had a moment of fluster realizing I was "wasting money" on a game we already had. But it was not wasting money. it was an investment in household harmony. -Tamara Markwick, mom to Bradley and Landers(Sorry about the delay. I was running through 4 AA batteries for every few pictures uploaded on my dial-up, so I waited to continue until we got an adapter to plug the camera into the outlet!)Wyl </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/5170296427636321917/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=5170296427636321917' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/5170296427636321917'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/5170296427636321917'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2008/09/live-and-learn-2008-part-2.html' title='Live and Learn 2008 .... part 2'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/SNHv-FtjvKI/AAAAAAAAAF0/h00o9__wqT0/s72-c/DSCFadventure1.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-879800351981399702</id><published>2008-09-15T01:54:00.009-05:00</published><updated>2008-09-17T23:45:22.319-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Live and Learn 2008 .... part 1</title><summary type='text'>"There is no single effort more radical in it's potential for saving the world than a transformation of the way we raise our children." Marianne WilliamsonOur first L &amp; L... Where to *begin*?!I joined Unschooling Discussion *right* before St. Louis... I probably could have scrambled and gotten in (and it was the closest one to us!), but I didn't feel that we "could" go, being as we weren't fully </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/879800351981399702/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=879800351981399702' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/879800351981399702'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/879800351981399702'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2008/09/live-and-learn-2008-part-1.html' title='Live and Learn 2008 .... part 1'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/SM4LQjxco3I/AAAAAAAAAEE/Bli79km-aIo/s72-c/DSCF1184.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-2538248703892044356</id><published>2008-09-14T13:50:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-09-16T20:28:59.429-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Anyone up for tutoring me on the html of blogging?</title><summary type='text'>Seriously! I would love to have someone in the know give me tips and hints or be available for e-mail (or IM) conferencing to help me figure out stuff. Anyone who's up for it, please e-mail me at eitherBiggWylma@aol.comorSanguinegirl83@aol.comTHANKS!!</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/2538248703892044356/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=2538248703892044356' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/2538248703892044356'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/2538248703892044356'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2008/09/anyone-up-for-tutoring-me-on-html-of.html' title='Anyone up for tutoring me on the html of blogging?'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-6113516966221324394</id><published>2008-09-14T13:16:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2008-09-15T01:34:46.413-05:00</updated><title type='text'>What's up with BiggWylma?!</title><summary type='text'>The average pencil is seven inches long, with just a half-inch eraser - in case you thought optimism was dead. -Robert Brault, software developer, writer (1972- )I'm astounded-nothing since APRIL?? Yikes. I guess we've had a busy summer! Well, as a little bite to get back into a (hopefully) regular posting mode, I'm going to explain where my screen name came from. Since people tend to ask (since </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/6113516966221324394/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=6113516966221324394' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/6113516966221324394'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/6113516966221324394'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2008/09/whats-up-with-biggwylma.html' title='What&apos;s up with BiggWylma?!'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-8624408285258867496</id><published>2008-04-23T03:03:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-04-23T04:21:28.123-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Philosophy 101'/><title type='text'>Fleeting Moments...</title><summary type='text'>A good listener helps us overhear ourselves. -Yahia Lababidi, author (b. 1973)Do you remember how the Flintstone's camera used to work? That hunk of hollowed-out stone with the sharp-beaked bird inside, peeking out the viewfinder and quickly etching out the image it saw? We had visited one of the metroparks in our area today for their Earth Day celebration. We spent some time playing/sitting/</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/8624408285258867496/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=8624408285258867496' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/8624408285258867496'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/8624408285258867496'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2008/04/fleeting-moments.html' title='Fleeting Moments...'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/SA79aGzxaCI/AAAAAAAAAD8/YTjela69bzI/s72-c/2008_0318Downloaded0414.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-3287787805792609520</id><published>2008-04-08T01:46:00.006-05:00</published><updated>2008-04-10T09:59:27.553-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Getting It'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Philosophy 101'/><title type='text'>The dance of the journey</title><summary type='text'>Is not dread of thirst when your well is full, thirst that is unquenchable?-Kahlil Gibran, mystic, poet, and artist (1883-1931)So... Wyl and I talked about things today. How school is (in some, small ways), how traditional parenting can look, how friends can be torn between their parents and their friends when choices have to be made.... It was a good talk, and for a change I knew when to shut up</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/3287787805792609520/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=3287787805792609520' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/3287787805792609520'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/3287787805792609520'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2008/04/dance-of-journey.html' title='The dance of the journey'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/R_2_3w05JZI/AAAAAAAAAD0/Ny7bkGmnF48/s72-c/2008_0318Downloaded0415.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-4173862655535863107</id><published>2008-03-15T23:47:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-03-15T23:55:38.992-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Philosophy 101'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I LOVE unschooling'/><title type='text'>The beauty of hugs and flowers</title><summary type='text'>We should be careful to get out of an experience only the wisdom that is in it -- and stop there -- lest we be like the cat that sits down on a hot stove-lid. She will never sit down on a hot stove-lid again, and that is well; but also she will never sit down on a cold one any more. -Mark Twain, author and humorist (1835-1910)Ain't it great when your kid grabs your arms and wraps them around </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/4173862655535863107/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=4173862655535863107' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/4173862655535863107'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/4173862655535863107'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2008/03/beauty-of-hugs-and-flowers.html' title='The beauty of hugs and flowers'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-4398880488743999615</id><published>2008-03-05T00:56:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-03-05T01:59:22.292-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Philosophy 101'/><title type='text'>Reading, writing &amp; politics</title><summary type='text'>I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent. -Mohandas Karamchand Gandhi (1869-1948) Does anyone else talk to the screen while reading at the unschooling groups? I'm not taking a poll, it's pretty much rhetorical.... What is that motion called? The one where you make a fist below shoulder level, palm up, pulling it back </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/4398880488743999615/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=4398880488743999615' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/4398880488743999615'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/4398880488743999615'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2008/03/reading-writing-politics.html' title='Reading, writing &amp; politics'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-4438535659207367274</id><published>2008-02-20T03:47:00.002-05:00</published><updated>2008-02-23T05:58:29.658-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Amazing Trip</title><summary type='text'>"Life's like a movie.Write your own endingkeep believing, keep pretending."-- Jim Henson (1936-1990)Wow, I am still floating! We spent 11 days traveling and visiting unschoolers!! Well... that makes it sound like there were many unschooling homes we visited, but it was 2. And it was awesome!! I would highly recommend to ANYONE that if you can swing it, DO it!!It was such bliss being "surrounded" </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/4438535659207367274/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=4438535659207367274' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/4438535659207367274'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/4438535659207367274'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2008/02/amazing-trip.html' title='Amazing Trip'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-6553901037603998402</id><published>2008-02-02T15:16:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-02-02T15:30:28.784-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Getting It'/><title type='text'>My Unschooling Experience</title><summary type='text'>The dust of exploded beliefs may make a fine sunset. -Geoffrey Madan, writer (1895-1947) Okay, I know its been a while and I'll address that. Later. I just had to get this out of my head and onto "paper"...I think I've finally hit the nail on the head as to what "getting" unschooling feels like to me-at this point in the journey. Fumbling in the dark. Serious, mis-directed fumbling. You know what</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/6553901037603998402/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=6553901037603998402' title='6 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/6553901037603998402'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/6553901037603998402'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2008/02/my-unschooling-experience.html' title='My Unschooling Experience'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>6</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-3199460494095399479</id><published>2008-01-01T21:39:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2008-01-02T01:59:00.926-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Getting It'/><title type='text'>An Inkling of Understanding</title><summary type='text'>"Be careful how you interpret the world: it *is* like that." -Erich Heller, essayist (1911-1990)*Disclaimer: I had many brief interruptions and one long one, so this may come out sounding disjointed or worse ;~)When I have moments like this, moments when *true understanding* seeps in around the roadblocks of old tapes/status quo, I want to run to each and every one of my "voices of reason", my </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/3199460494095399479/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=3199460494095399479' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/3199460494095399479'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/3199460494095399479'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2008/01/inkling-of-understanding.html' title='An Inkling of Understanding'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-5632177540093790845</id><published>2007-12-20T10:19:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-03-19T02:25:10.059-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I LOVE unschooling'/><title type='text'>Reflections</title><summary type='text'>Funny, since starting my journey to respectful parenting, I'm far less horified to hear my mother's voice coming from my mouth (rarely even hear it anymore) than to hear MY voice coming from my *children's* mouths. Those moments that stop me short as I incredulously ask myself, "Did I SAY that?" or "Do I sound that awful??". Apparently, I'm not noticing the early signs before I hear those things </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/5632177540093790845/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=5632177540093790845' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/5632177540093790845'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/5632177540093790845'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2007/12/reflections.html' title='Reflections'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/R-C_MBMVh5I/AAAAAAAAADc/KtAOlo4iab0/s72-c/2008_0318Downloaded0251.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-8455853137690529368</id><published>2007-12-11T02:18:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-12-11T02:41:42.887-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Getting It'/><title type='text'>Duh!</title><summary type='text'>Another one of those moments...I was reading an interview of Eva Longoria and read a bit about her mother being non-judgemental and always wanting whatever made her kids happy. I know this. I've wanted this as a parent, too. I *thought* I was "there" until I read this paragraph, set the paper down and nodded my head saying, "Uh huh." and then something clicked.All those times I kept getting </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/8455853137690529368/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=8455853137690529368' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/8455853137690529368'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/8455853137690529368'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2007/12/duh.html' title='Duh!'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-1089457838484259884</id><published>2007-11-30T16:17:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-11-30T16:40:24.063-05:00</updated><title type='text'></title><summary type='text'>Funny how your kids' desires so easily become our own... Storm has been asking to go to Green Island (Discovery Channel kid's science-themed cartoon "Peep") all week. I kept meaning to Google it-I figured there was a Green Island SOMEwhere, but kept forgetting. He said it again about a half hour ago, as I sat at the computer. "Oh, yeah!" I said, pulling up a window and going to Google. As I </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/1089457838484259884/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=1089457838484259884' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/1089457838484259884'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/1089457838484259884'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2007/11/funny-how-your-kids-desires-so-easily.html' title=''/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-62847234985059502</id><published>2007-09-30T04:16:00.003-05:00</published><updated>2008-03-19T01:53:06.507-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='I LOVE unschooling'/><title type='text'>Giving what we didn't have</title><summary type='text'>Funny how some of these feelings/thoughts just kind of sneak up on you and then you're smiling and fighting back tears...Storm was puttering around the bedroom today near the box fan that is always in the room when he suddenly turned it on. Now, he's done this before in there and other areas of the house, but when he first started I was really concerned about him putting his fingers in it. And, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/62847234985059502/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=62847234985059502' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/62847234985059502'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/62847234985059502'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2007/09/giving-what-we-didnt-have.html' title='Giving what we didn&apos;t have'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/R-CfVhMVh0I/AAAAAAAAAC0/Mp26dKUYQLE/s72-c/2008_0318Downloaded0049.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-8289413145324639563</id><published>2007-09-27T00:18:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2008-03-18T23:38:05.518-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Happy and wistful...</title><summary type='text'>What a day. Doesn't seem much out of the ordinary until I sit down at the computer and my mind starts going back over things...Wyl focuses largely in my memories of today... Where have the years gone??? It just seems like a week ago that he was Storm's age, snuggling with me, easy to toss and tickle, so uncomplicated... I see flashes of ages in Wyl constantly. Rarely, I can see that wee one, and </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/8289413145324639563/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=8289413145324639563' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/8289413145324639563'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/8289413145324639563'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2007/09/happy-and-wistful.html' title='Happy and wistful...'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/R-CYTBMVhzI/AAAAAAAAACs/c3yfXY8CjQc/s72-c/2008_0317Downloaded0053.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-8664662851708331690</id><published>2007-09-24T19:43:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-09-24T20:55:50.489-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Tides</title><summary type='text'>I'm stressing (again) over jumping on (breaking) furniture/beds and sugar/pop. Funny how these things seem to almost have a rhythm to them, a pattern, like the tides. Is it me or is it the way of the path of RU?I know there are things that if I focused on them, I would obsess, stress or freak-so I tend to ignore those kinds of things. Funny-I seem to generally be an "all or nothing" kind of </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/8664662851708331690/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=8664662851708331690' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/8664662851708331690'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/8664662851708331690'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2007/09/tides.html' title='Tides'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/RvhmurrrHPI/AAAAAAAAAAo/fJcVUMQ0hg8/s72-c/DSCF0238.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-6958685241855786833</id><published>2007-09-22T01:20:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-09-22T01:39:24.111-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Connections</title><summary type='text'>Some of my favorite threads on UD and AL are the connection ones. Funny, but I never make that *connection* when we have them here!Wyl asked me the other day what "star bird" meant. "Star Bird??" I asked. "Yeah, I heard it on SpongeBob the other day." LOL Ah, starboard. So, as I begin to explain that it is one of the 4 sides of a ship (one of the 2 sides, 2 ends??), I am explaining I can never </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/6958685241855786833/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=6958685241855786833' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/6958685241855786833'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/6958685241855786833'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2007/09/connections.html' title='Connections'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-332540912219850004</id><published>2007-09-19T22:45:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-09-20T03:52:30.615-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Attachment parenting goes mainstream?'/><title type='text'>Things That Make You Go Hmmmm...</title><summary type='text'>It was very easy for Dave and I to see and adjust our thinking in regards to the "educational" aspect of Radical Unschooling (RU). However, the parenting aspect is so much more difficult for us. While many people (it seems, though I haven't taken a poll or done any studies) seem to come to RU from an Attachment Parenting mindset, Dave and I were raised quite the opposite, and from my very first </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/332540912219850004/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=332540912219850004' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/332540912219850004'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/332540912219850004'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2007/09/thngs-that-make-you-go-hmmmm.html' title='Things That Make You Go Hmmmm...'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/RvI0SLYAm5I/AAAAAAAAAAg/j48oGEoQL24/s72-c/DSCF0109.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-7725864212164733747</id><published>2007-09-18T22:42:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-09-19T00:50:32.692-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Choices...</title><summary type='text'>Jeeze-has it really been almost 9 months since I blogged?? I knew it had been a while, but I didn't realize just how long it had been...There's been so much that has happened in that time... Not "big" stuff per se, but big steps (for us) in the RU department. I can't possibly fill it all in now, but I will put a doozy in, since that's what brought me back to my blog tonight.Tooth brushing. Teeth.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/7725864212164733747/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=7725864212164733747' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/7725864212164733747'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/7725864212164733747'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2007/09/choices.html' title='Choices...'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/RvC4ebYAm4I/AAAAAAAAAAY/9nIn5BgHK4I/s72-c/DSCF0003.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-117016286139475547</id><published>2007-01-30T06:23:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-30T08:14:22.286-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Mini Connections</title><summary type='text'>Funny how reading on the post boards makes me think of little blurbs I should be putting in the baby book or on the blog... Today it was several things about Storm. And a few about Wyl. I was just realizing how I used to offer to Storm "Here is the trashcan if you wanted to throw that away" and now he's actively searching for the trash whenever he has something that needs thrown away... And how </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/117016286139475547/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=117016286139475547' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/117016286139475547'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/117016286139475547'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2007/01/mini-connections.html' title='Mini Connections'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-116937164853832714</id><published>2007-01-21T04:08:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-01-22T07:48:47.586-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Little Surprises</title><summary type='text'>I'm thinking this is one of those pages I'm going to have to revisit and edit. I've tried e-mailing notes to myself about little ideas to expand on in the blog, and I just keep forwarding them to myself. SO... I figured since I'm online, have the Explorer window open and could take a few minutes, I'd jot a little something that crossed my mind today.Wyl got out and set up the Pixar Monopoly today</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/116937164853832714/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=116937164853832714' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/116937164853832714'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/116937164853832714'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2007/01/little-surprises.html' title='Little Surprises'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-116479213916818040</id><published>2006-11-29T03:50:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-10-06T03:38:34.703-05:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Parent problems'/><title type='text'>Musings...</title><summary type='text'>I had a horrid "meeting" with my parents Saturday.Without going into immense detail and history, lots of things happened with my controlling, domineering mother (with my father following in her wake) and my family, mainly about mine and Dave's parenting (or lack thereof in THEIR eyes), we took an extended "vacation" from visiting them, and ended up in a family counselor's office; things went much</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/116479213916818040/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=116479213916818040' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/116479213916818040'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/116479213916818040'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2006/11/musings.html' title='Musings...'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-116400923666909054</id><published>2006-11-20T02:21:00.001-05:00</published><updated>2006-11-20T02:53:56.680-05:00</updated><title type='text'>My thoughts for the day...</title><summary type='text'>My goodness! So many unschooling-affirming things have been happening in the last couple months. Work has left me with no time to blog, so I've neglected this a lot, but I have a little time today... probably not enough for all I have to say! LOL I was sending myself little notes to refer to when I got around to blogging, but I can't seem to locate them, so I'll see if I can edit at a later time.</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/116400923666909054/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=116400923666909054' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/116400923666909054'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/116400923666909054'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2006/11/my-thoughts-for-day_20.html' title='My thoughts for the day...'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-116150272751215416</id><published>2006-10-22T02:37:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-10-22T02:38:47.993-05:00</updated><title type='text'>I love it when unschooling "lets us know" its there and working...</title><summary type='text'>Its been busy this month. Going to work again (uck), preparing (or trying to) for Storm's Blue's Clues birthday party, Dave and I taking classes at the Akron Main Library, Dave trying to put together a comprehensive business plan for the welding place, trying to organise talks with my parents and me and visits for the kids and grandparents... You know, *life* LOL Well, work's extremely boring, </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/116150272751215416/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=116150272751215416' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/116150272751215416'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/116150272751215416'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2006/10/i-love-it-when-unschooling-lets-us.html' title='I love it when unschooling &quot;lets us know&quot; its there and working...'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-116064114235146562</id><published>2006-10-12T03:17:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-10-12T03:19:02.356-05:00</updated><title type='text'>COOL!!</title><summary type='text'>A blog game!1. Grab the nearest book. 2. Open the book to page 123. 3. Find the fifth sentence. 4. Post the text of the next 4 sentences on your Blog along with these instructions. 5. Don't you dare dig for that "cool" or "intellectual" book in your closet! I know you were thinking about it! Just pick up whatever is closest.***Okay! The first book I saw (and man, are there a lot here! LOL) was "</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/116064114235146562/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=116064114235146562' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/116064114235146562'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/116064114235146562'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2006/10/cool.html' title='COOL!!'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-115969966234309829</id><published>2006-10-01T05:13:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-10-01T05:47:42.403-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Hobbit</title><summary type='text'>Well, good and bad points to the day. Wyl and Dave enjoyed the live Hobbit performance. What I saw of it, I really liked-masks were awesome, props were cool and I LOVED the versatility of the scenery! A lot of the masks and some props were made by one guy out of foam-I suggested to Dave he should find the guy's info and offer his help-he may learn something. Storm and I left about 10 minutes into</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/115969966234309829/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=115969966234309829' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/115969966234309829'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/115969966234309829'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2006/10/hobbit.html' title='Hobbit'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-115961276084732273</id><published>2006-09-30T05:05:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-09-30T05:39:20.876-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Quiet</title><summary type='text'>Well, today was a pretty quiet day. Dave had Steve B.s viewing to attend. Wyl played outside a lot. Feeling disconnected from him lately-have to figure out how to connect with him. Storm and I got lots of snuggle/lovey time with his beloved Dada gone for a few hours. :~) It was nice and re-charging. I didn't get much done around the house, but Dave did. Sheila was going to come by on her way home</summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/115961276084732273/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=115961276084732273' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/115961276084732273'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/115961276084732273'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2006/09/quiet.html' title='Quiet'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-115943913658292900</id><published>2006-09-28T04:50:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2006-09-28T05:25:36.590-05:00</updated><title type='text'>Potions and posts</title><summary type='text'>Somtimes I get so involved in the day-to-day that it takes me a while to "see" something as a cool unschooling thing. The last few weeks, Wyl has been absorbed in "making potions"; basically playing in the bathroom with small and medium bottles (mouthwash, trial size shampoo, etc.), water, some comb-in hair dye of his, mouthwash, soap and all sorts of colored things. It started out quite a while </summary><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/feeds/115943913658292900/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='http://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=35103284&amp;postID=115943913658292900' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/115943913658292900'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/35103284/posts/default/115943913658292900'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://and-the-kitchen-sink.blogspot.com/2006/09/potions-and-posts.html' title='Potions and posts'/><author><name>De</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/04152346936760618995</uri><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:image rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail' width='32' height='30' src='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_VtXqdnIbJ6w/TEFgoWY9BGI/AAAAAAAAALk/3OQZYuKLA1A/S220/Profile+pic.jpg'/></author><thr:total>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-35103284.post-115935399721450162</id><published>2006-09-27T05:40:00.000-05:00</published><updated>2007-09-19T00:38:08.558-05:00</updated><title type='text'>And we're off...</title><summary type='text'>Well... I should have started this a long time ago, but with time constraints, technilogical impairments and all... :~D FYI: I don't know that my blog is going to be in a familiar format... I tend to ramble off into tangents of tangents, ruminate and basically converse with an unseen entity-my content varying with what I'm imagining the entity is responding... 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